PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

When we talk of a person, we tend to describe her in terms of some qualities or characterizes. The terms used are such as ‘shy type’, ‘honest’, ‘dominant’, ‘submissive’, ‘aggressive’, ‘soft’, ‘humorous’, ‘morose’, ‘selfish’, ‘kind and understanding type’, ‘strict disciplinarian’, ‘sociable’ and so on. Physical appearance may be one of the factors to create the first impressions to form an opinion about a person. But the names earned by the external appearance of a person such as, “beautiful or ugly”, “tall or short”, fat or lean cannot help to define a personality. Personality involves all aspects of human behavior and a study of personality is based on a study of the mind.
“Personality is defined as the whole individual, consisting of the “overall pattern or integration”, of his or her structures, modes of behavior, interests, attitudes, intellectual abilities, aptitudes and many other distinguishable characteristics. According to psychologists, “Personality is a equality which is acquired by an individual in object-oriented activity and communication characterizing his or her involvement in social relations. Personality is developed in the process of social practice. Being active, and with a knowledge of the surroundings, environment and the society, the person finds a unity with her own emotional experience. The term “Personality” refers to the integrated person of an individual, her consistent behaviour and also her special characteristic quality. The components in dissecting a personality by a psychologist are called “the personality traits”.

TWO DIFFERENT KINDS OF THE TRAITS

In a scientific research in tracing down all the primary traits in a personality, the most important traits are narrowed down into seven in number. They are the general activity or drive, masculinity – feminity, impulsiveness, dominance – submission, emotional stability, sociability and reflective ness. These traits can be called “surface traits” and “Depth factors”. The surface traits are very visible aspects of a personality such as friendliness, general vigor, calmness in emergencies and sociability. The depth factors are deeply imprinted in the inner personality and a psychological study is needed to discover them. The depth factors are deeply imprinted in the inner personality and a psychological study is needed to discover them. The depth factors are fears, anxieties, desires, aspirations; concepts relating to self and the persons may be aware of them or may not be aware of such traits. The psychoanalytic testing may discover them. The depth factors are fears, anxieties, desires, aspirations; concepts relating to self and the persons may be aware of them or may not be aware of such traits. The psychoanalytic testing may discover them. Sometimes these unconscious traits are understood them. Sometimes these unconscious traits are understood through dreams.

Subjectivity, for an individual the personality is her “Self”, which is the system of ideas about her, constructed by an individual in the process of activity and communication, which ensures the unity and the identity of her personality. Her personality is understood be her only when involves in self-appraisal.

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Believe in the Existence of God

Hi guys. There are three categories of people in the world atheists (i.e.) those who do not at all believe in the existence of god, those who believe in god sincerely and seriously and others, agnostics who don’t disbelieve but are indifferent to god. The rationalists or atheists say that evolution was pure accident occasioned by a rare and singular unpredictable disturbance in the constancy of the DNA molecular structure, that means the entire universe resulted by pure accident.

But great scientists agree on the existence of an priority intellectual. Man is only trying to discover a fraction of it, of course, purely with the help of his intellect. Buck minster Fuller says that once is overwhelmed by the supreme integrity of his cosmic intellect. A world like God is suitable, if we are not to indulge in any argument over the existence of some superior power above us. Let us agree reasonably that human life has a purpose behind it. Treating some supreme thing or person as all powerful, omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent puts an end to arguments. Voltaire one of the greatest intellectuals of the world, said, “We have to invent to God”. Bye...

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The media play a fairly good role in Society

Hi guys. When the teaching centers turn to be excessively mercenary, the doctors become over negligent, the lawyers defend worst criminals for money the police show no hesitation in harassing the helpless and the poor the engineers shirk work by laying bad roads and the engineers shirk work by laying bad roads and the politicians cross the limits of decency only the newspapers can guide the nation by chastising and exposing them. Then can so portray these mishaps as to kindle in the public a strong urge to launch agitations/protests/public meetings against the offending. Surely this suggestion is easier said than practiced. To put this suggestion translated into action, the media’s management and staff have to be dedicated and darling in the interest of the society’s overall gain.

As stressed earlier, the expectation of the people and reliance on them compel them to be proactive. The print media once again justifying the saying that pen is mightier than the sword, form a dynamic structure and a gospel of action for mass communication. Even today we can see a lot of villagers reading newspapers while sipping tea in the morning, at the roadside tea shop.

Of course, the media play a fairly good role in catering to the people’s recreations and pleasant pastime by presenting enough material from cinema, drama, art, literature, music, painting, sculpture etc. though the diehard purists level the charge of depicting obscenity in regard to certain magazines or newspapers on some occasions. I am with the media in this respect. Bye...

Be Confidence in Your Life

Hi guys. Great psychologists have advocated living dangerously to maintain our grip over confidence. Gradually a freedom from all kinds of fear will develop in young men to render him fir for facing any eventuality. Some doubting Thomases may say that it will be dangerous to wander in thick forests or to climb huge mountains facing wild animals and poisonous reptiles. To them, Rudyard Kipling answers that they will be friends to us if approached like Puran Bag hat did at the foot of Himalayas.

When we step out house there are dangers lurking on the way like speeding vehicles, excessive emission of hazardous gases, food poisoning, earthquake, lightning, storm, cyclone tsunami, exposure to terrorists’ attack, way laying burglars, altercation with belligerent etc. Do we dispense with going out? Similarly, if the young men adjust themselves to the surroundings in their wanderings, they will enjoy a great thrill and satisfaction which will keep them in good stead in their later lives. Based on the positive outcome of risky adventure let the young men and women include outings in Tekkadi forests, Kodaikanal hills in their itinerary.

The charm of a wandering tribe pitching their tent under the shade of a tree in a forest comes to my mind. They have no possessive instinct and earn their living selling needles, combs, beads when they establish esprit Corps and appear to be healthy and happy. They symbolize the concept of living dangerously.

The Rationalists do not believe in miraculous happenings

A system of belief regulated by reason attributing everything to natural cause and affect. The Rationalists do not believe in miraculous happenings. Their activities are governed by reason. Rationalism may appear to be a highly perfected system. It leads you to disown God. The of Rationalism may be logical, but judged from the effects it has produced, one can see through in it the loss of spiritual values, enhancement of self – centered nature, encouraged of dishonest exploitation and mutual distrust and frustration.

‘Be independent, be bold and don’t pretend’ – is the crux of the rationalists’ approach. Think for yourself. Don’t let popes, seers and Swamijis and Moulvis and high priests do the thinking for you. Organized religion based on the concept of God is the greatest successful fraud that man has practiced on himself on himself. To believe in a supreme creator is a sign of intellectual bankruptcy. God has not created man in his image; it is the other way around”.

This is the logic of the Rationalists. Their reasoning is that the whole world is mismanaged and so God lacks the skill of management. No ethical system should be based on the blind belief in god. There is no ultimate purpose behind belief in God. There is no inherent purpose in Nature. We have to construct purpose for ourselves and by our own decisions. This kind of preaching is done by Stephen could.

THE PLACE OF GAMES AND SPORTS IN EDUCATION

Hi guys. ‘A healthy mind in a healthy body’ is a good saying. All work and no play make jack a dull bay; work you work, play while you play and read while you read. These saying are insisting upon the games sports and exercises are essential for the healthy body which needed for a healthy mind to have sound education. So games, sports, exercises are essential in curriculum.

Athletics means outdoor games or sports especially competition in running, jumping, breathing, boxing, Javelin throw, disc throw etc. One who is trained and competing in races is called an athlete. Meeting for athletic contests is called sports. Sportsmen take part in various games track races etc. In addition to the above there are many indoor and outdoor games. There are team games too.

Sports and games improve physical health. They give courage to sportsmen. The spirit of competition develops self control. Teamwork teaches team spirit and co-operation and discipline. Winning prizes is a great attraction. Once Swami Vivekananda said that religion can be taught through football than the study of Gita, Indian hockey team and cricket team go to other cities, states and other countries. They bring laurel to our country by winning the matches.

ENVIRONMENTAL POLLUTION

Hi friends. How are you? The problem of water pollution is growing in an uncontrolled way in cities. The problem intensifies with the additional pollutant in our water ways. They are wastes from nuclear explosions domestic wastes, chemical wastes from factories and industrial units etc. Because of the pollution the holy water of Ganga to Cauvery becomes unfit to consume today. As such many diseases are intestinal infection, hard worms, cholera, typhoid etc. Occur and cause a great harm to man kind. For example the Bhopal gas leak tragedy was a consequence of the release of poisonous methyslsocynate from the Union Carbide Plant.

Noise pollution has become a public health hazard. Environmental noise leads to head aches, fatigue, and blood pressure and can affect to fetus. We understand that the environment is polluted by human activity. If this continues mankind is bound to perish. It is therefore necessary to take proper measures for protecting and minimizing pollution of the environment. Bye friends...

SELF RESPECT – AS A MORAL VALUE

There are broadly three aspects of self-awareness, self-respect, self-importance and self-realization. Let us not step into the area of abstract philosophy relating to self-realization. Self-realization is a spiritual goal, defined and elucidated by great philosophers of diverse schools of thought or religions. Self-importance is another version of an assertion of one’s sense of dignity and power. Very often it is reflected in an egotistic person. He betrays his impatience in his urge to profess his worth or status. A self-important individual lacks sense of judgment or liberal thinking. Very often he shows a tendency to decry anything that is normally accepted by many. He would not hear, but wants to be heard. That is the reason for his becoming an object of ridicule by many.

Now let us turn our thoughts to another trait relating to human behavior. A person of self-respect is different from one who affects self-importance. There is no element of pride or ego in a person who is self-confident. He respects his own power of thinking or ability just as he admires those in others. The person who possesses self-respect has trust in his own capacity with all its limitations. He never stoops to gain advantage or favor and yet he is humble enough to emulate men of superior talents or merit. He shows a balanced attitude without yielding to temptations of gains or favors. In short he proves himself as a man of integrity. He obeys the higher law of conscience.

SENSE OF HUMOUR

Recently on the Teachers’ day when Mr. Somnath Chatterji, the Loksabha Speaker, compared himself to a headmaster there were peals of laughter from both the benches. A jovial exchange of words even during important discussions, in the Parliament or Assemblies will create an atmosphere of cordiality.

Laughter therapy is recommended by the doctors to free ourselves from tension and anxiety. Sometimes, even slapstick comedies can be adopted to experience a feel good surrounding. Of course the joke must be without a sting or sarcasm or a deliberate hurt. Sometimes, a twist of general statements would produce laughter as in the following remarks. “We are making headway steadily backwards”. A hair in the head is worth two in the brush”. The gist of a lady’s letter is in the postscript”. Rajaji put it – “Laughter is looked upon as an innovation of Nature to compensate for the diminished friction and massage of the internal organs caused by man’s jerks on him”.